Review: The Power by Rhonda Byrne

I've been searching for a book that can make me feel content, happy, and has guidance to a better me. My friend gave me this book two years ago as my Christmas present. Didn't get to read it until lately, coz I was searching for a motivational book. The bookstores had recommended this book and many people had said that it's a good book, so I gave it a try.

When i first read it, I felt that it is somehow different from other materials that you can see online, books or any references that teach you to be happy. Most of them will ask you to find a talent, hang out with friends, don't stay bored, bla bla bla... this book has taught me a very different perspective since the first chapter already! I wanted happiness, I don't want to stay moody, get angry for no reason and feeling lifeless and bored. This book has taught me to LIST and LOVE everything that I like, even the qualities of people that i like! and you must really feel LOVE for that. after that, keep feeling the frequency and leave those things and people that make you produce bad feeling far far away. what it means by far far away is that you give no feeling towards it, not hatred, jealousy or anything - NOTHING. just remember, good things attract good things; and bad things attract bad things. 

i would recommend this book to my friends if they feel like reading a book concerning happiness. i think it doesn't only make you a better person, it also indirectly teaches you to love your body as good feelings need to come from good mind, good words, good deed, and of course, good body. to those who already read the book, keep applying what it teaches and have a good life, wait, a very very good life! :)

bye for now!

2013 Resolution

So, since i couldn't finish fulfilling all the resolution or goals i set last year, this year i'm going to set less, and they focus more on being a better me, and also a person who will still be happy without pleasing others. why i said that? i realized i have been pleasing others a lot all these years and i don't even know what i want after crying and quarreling and hating others for treating me badly. i'm very jealous that others could live so happily, but why not me?? searching answers everywhere everyday and from the examples i get around me, i know i didn't treat myself enough. so, it's time to love myself, put my needs to priority, and get to know myself more!

in 2013, i want to...

1. Find my passion and talent

2. Stay focus

3. Control anger and emotions

4. Learn how to sing properly (i really love singing, keeps me high!)

5. Watch sunrise at the beach

6. Read more self-help materials

7. Save money and do some investments

8. Do what I love, and don't do what i don't love

9. Stay classy and sassy

10. Act like a lady, think like a man

11. Talk less, listen more

12. When people walk away from you, let them go

13. Be happy, dance more!

not going to simply get anything for myself anymore and i think it's good to improve myself everyday. how had your first day of 2012 been? i hope it's a good year to you! gotta go sleep now as i still need to continue clearing old things. yes yes THROW ALL THE OLD THINGS and let the new ones in! :) Good night!

xoxo

Last Day of 2012

It's the last day of year 2012, and we didn't die yay!! Thank god for letting me continuing my life. So, last year i made a new year resolution for year 2012 and it goes like this.

this year, i wish to...
#1  Think less
#2  Get a job that pays a good amount (in the process weee!)
#3  Be confident!
#4  Be who I want to be not others want me to be
#5  Travel
#6  Find myself (i'm alwiz confused)
#7  Watching every episode of How I Met Your Mother
#8  Accept my insecurities
#9  Be a better person to the people around me (be less hot-tempered)
#10 Become less shy
#11 Redecorate my room
#12 Appreciate the little things
#13 Get back together with my true love
#14 Get an Iphone Get a Note 2 already
#15 Get a little bit taller (imma shorty just so you know)
#16 Watch the sunrise at the beach
#17 Learn a Nicki Minaj song
#18 Buy a pair of gorgeous heels
#19 Learn how to play the guitar
#20 Read more
#21 Find someone who will treat me right, get rid of those who treat me wrong
#22 Be happy
#23 Road Trip with friends
#24 Start saving money
#25 Go on camping with friends
#26 Learn another language (Korean,maybe?)
#27 Be strong!
#28 Get my first Nike shoes
#29 Adopt sugar glider
#30 Learn how to sing properly
#31 Spend more time with family
#32 Play in the rain
#33 Go on a trip with WOPPY

I've only done half of the resolutions i made last year. hmm... maybe i was too greedy? but i'm still happy that half of it achieved! especially those things that i get for myself unexpectedly. heheh... maybe i should start working on 2013 RESOLUTION and make sure the items are more achievable.

how have you guys been doing lately? ready to party tonight to embrace 2013 with joy?? haha.. i wish you all the best for the new year and most important, BE HAPPY!

xoxo

To Mr. Inspiration

i just had something to say to you, but i don't know how to begin with, so i wrote it down instead...

in my life, there're some people who can really inspired me and influence me, and one of them is YOU... this is rare. well, not to say that i liked you before this so i think you inspired me, but it's because of your character itself that makes me inspired. i had no reason to tell you why i'm inspired by you, but i know some of the reasons i couldn't tell because it's about a guy who hurt me a lot in my life.

i was a girl who desperately wanting to be loved, and i was afraid to be lonely, still a lil bit like that till now though...i would do anything just to keep my partner happy, and i'll listened to him so that he could just stay by my side. but the more i did that, the more i felt like i was not being appreciated... and there came all the resentful feelings towards him, and i'll still go back to him somehow. feeling helpless... all because i'm afraid to be lonely...so i just listened to my EX.

many once told me this, "Hui Chien, just let him go, don't bother him anymore, don't contact him anymore" etc. it's easy to be said, but it's really hard to be done, just so you know... and i'm really scared coz i've been that way for few years! however, few months ago, i met you... things started to change... to a good side. (if it sounds to cliche i'm so sorry heehee)

i could somehow feel that your words are very motivating. the way you spoke is different, maybe you don't sound like you're blaming like others did. you've heard about all the problems i used to had with the EX, and what you really said that awakened me was the most annoying words i've ever heard in my life. you said something about what i did is not worth the value i had for myself something like that. i was really really angry at you, but i started to think back, maybe it's true... maybe i wasn't respecting myself all this while...

i used to be a happy girl, don't give a fuck on whatever people did, don't care about what people might think and i just love hanging out with my friends so much. and i've changed completely throughout that two years, that two dysfunctional years, because of a man. kinda disappointed with myself, for making myself fall into this state, but what's past is not going to be the future. still recovering from that memory.

i don't know whether you are reading this, but i really wanna thank you for waking me up. thank you for your influence. thank you for making me realize how high value i need to put for myself. don't know what will happen in the future but for now i'm gonna take control of myself. still feel a bit embarrassed though that you forced me to admit that i like you, i hated you for that. should never be so stupid to admit anything to you anymore, lesson learned, haha. i just hope we could hang out like we used to again, relaxing friendship time. just don't relate yourself to my ex again, i don't like you to remind me of him, and you guys are not the same person after all. :) miss you, inspirational friend.

pls don't forget about the scuba diving plan next year! i've been waiting for it for YEARS!!! weee!

Just my recent feelings.

haven't been writing for so long, i miss writing so much...

i'm exhausted! had never been so busy like this before, as i work and study for 7 days a week now! 

Monday work, Tuesday classes, Wednesday class and work, Thursday class and scholarship duty, Friday work, Saturday work, Sunday work... 

oh ya, and also meetings in between those classes for the club, assignments, etc...

my life is all about eat, sleep, work, study, and meetings now... and occasionally meeting up some friends during lunch or dinner time... i feel tired. 

i have never been so busy for so many weeks in my life before. if i had this situation years ago, i think i would have end up burnout and gone into depression. now, i'm feeling so hyper everyday, and this is weird. it's like i am excited to finish my work but i just have not enough energy... this schedule has changes me a lot. i'm even anticipating to go to class nowadays, that's WOW, for me... i'm a lazy girl...i don't like to go to class, but this time it's different. and my mood, i feel like i don't even bother any things that will make me unhappy anymore. how to summarize this? STRESS makes me motivated? hahaha

is this normal? i don't know... but what i just wish to have now is a good sleep everyday and wake up with good skin. :) bye, i'm gonna start writing again when i'm free...


when things make you too busy, learn to set priorities. :)